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Monday, April 7, 2008

piece of advice to all of you... live your own life... don't waste it by letting others run it for you... God never gave you one so that people will try to live it for you... Do your thing... to hell with everyone... It's yours... not theirs... When your folks tell you to go to lawschool or medschool, don't do so, unless you're in the same page as they are... coz chances are? you'll never succeed doing what they want you to... If your boyfriend you you're fat, DUMP HIM! You don't need anyone's assurance just to feel good about yourself... if you want to be a painter, be one! don't do so because people tell you you'd be a good painter... do so because you love to... to hell with what other people tell you... you can listen to them, or ask them for advice but not every advice they give you will always work for you... it's a case to case basis... It's always up to you... remember that...
the problem with some people who tell you what you ought to do and what you ought not to do is that they think they willl make a difference in your life... WRONG!!! if anything, they will hold you back from doing what makes you happy.... you have to understand.... IT'S YOUR LIFE... NOT THEIRS... though we all are aware that they mean well and their intentions are pure... but they have to understand, learning is better done the hard way sometimes...
If you do make the wrong decision, well, charge to experience... atleast you learned... albeit a little too late... but life is a constant process of learning... people go through that everyday so don't worry about having one too many booboos... on the other hand, if you make the right choice, celebrate, but don't dwell on it too much... :) don't get too cocky... just be happy that you did and move on... life never stops there....
i grew up having to listen to what my folks always tell me... do this.. not that... don't go there... be a lady... that went on for the past 22 years of my existence... you'll never make it as an artist... you don't have a knack for this and that... and the list goes on... in college, i took up mass communications because they told me i'd make a good lawyer... if not, a good writer... i like the writer part so i proceeded with mass communications... years later, i graduated with a degree in Mass Communications... but that never earned me the privilege of choosing my destiny... instead, to make everyone happy, i decided jumping to lawschool will be a great idea... BIG MISTAKE... i never really lasted a year... so... here i am... just got out from SM... not knowing what i really wanted to do in my life... Or probably, afraid of pursuing what i want for the fear of being negated again by the people i look up to...
Well for the moment, all i know is that i love to write... heck if i don't have the skills, but... Like what i said, life is a constant learning process... I have my whole life to learn...

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